Dreaming of a life without high-functioning anxiety

High functioning anxiety. I can feel it right now. Punching into my train of thought, trying to slow the words, steady the flow, drop an anchor on this blog post, prevent me from stepping out and declaring that it's even there at all. "Hide me!" whispers anxiety, "Don't let them know I'm here." As if that might make it easier for me to cope. Somehow. Push it away, sweep it under the … [Read more...]

Nobody can save you, but you – Take back your power to tackle anxiety

When it comes to tackling anxiety, I have tried many approaches. As a child, I pushed it away. I hated the feeling that I was weird, different, and a little bit too quiet and shy. Instead, I placed a huge amount of pressure on myself to fit in and be like everybody else. It didn’t work. As a teenager my anxiety held me back, and I became depressed. I spoke to my doctor about it, and he … [Read more...]

What is an anxiety-reducing lifestyle

Every day you go about your life, living in a way that makes sense to you. You get up, you eat, you breathe, you do stuff, and you sleep. We all do. The way you choose to go about your days – the things you choose to do – make up your lifestyle. This includes your daily routines, your habits, what you eat and drink, your work, your free time … What is an anxiety-reducing lifestyle? For … [Read more...]

Finding work that works for you, despite your anxiety

Many parents of children with selective mutism or anxiety disorders worry about their children's future. The world as most of us know it is set up to work best for the person who can talk freely, think clearly and work well under pressure. What sort of job will a young person be able to get if they struggle to speak to people and cave in under pressure? I can understand this concern - and I'm … [Read more...]

Feeling stuck? Maybe you need to dream more …

Do you know what you'd like your future to look like? Do you have goals and plans, hopes and dreams? Do you spend much time imagining how your life will look and feel when you achieve these dreams? I am a firm believer in the power of intention, visualisation, and in particular, writing things down. No matter what challenges you may be facing in your life right now, and even if there seems … [Read more...]

Anxiety versus Freedom – or do we need them both?

Have you ever experienced freedom whilst feeling anxious? Is that even possible??? I ask you this question because freedom is something I have been thinking about a lot lately, and especially so these past two days since joining Natalie Sisson's 10 day Freedom Blog Challenge. In yesterday's post I made some important realisations. I was able to see that throughout my life, in all I have been … [Read more...]